Education Staff and Adminstrator Guide

Consent Awareness Week for School Staff & Administrators | High School Too

Consent Awareness Week · For school staff and administrators

Consent Awareness Week for school staff and administrators

Your practical guide for Consent Awareness Week. You don't need to plan a new unit or a large event. Start with what feels manageable: follow the five-day plan, choose an activity that fits your students, adapt a sample letter, or bring one short conversation into your classroom.

One idea for each day

The five-day plan

The week begins by building a shared understanding of consent, on our bodies, in our relationships, and on the land. It then makes space to believe and support survivors, before exploring boundaries, respectful relationships, and consent in digital spaces. Each day builds on the one before, but the plan is flexible: follow all five days, choose what fits your students, or begin with a single meaningful conversation.

Day 1

Understanding consent: a shared language

Introduce what consent means, on our bodies, in our relationships, and on the land, including consent on the land and Free, Prior and Informed Consent (FPIC). The youngest learn "ask first"; older students explore FPIC and the CHOICE framework.

Day 2

Supporting survivors & each other

"We Believe You" Day. Make space to believe and support survivors, and to learn how to respond with care when someone shares an experience of harm.

Day 3

Boundaries: personal space & belongings

Explore boundaries around bodies and belongings: asking first, every time, from sharing toys to borrowing a charger to respecting privacy.

Day 4

Respectful relationships & everyday consent

Respect in real relationships: showing and receiving affection, reading verbal and non-verbal cues, and the principle that no yes means no.

Day 5

Digital consent & online safety

Consent in digital life: sharing photos, tagging, screenshots, app permissions, and knowing how to get help.

CHOICE: what a caring "yes" really needs

A simple way for older students to remember what a real "yes" looks like, from Possibility Seeds.

C
Chosen freely

Freely given, without pressure, guilt, or someone wearing you down.

H
Have the info you need

Informed: you know what you're saying yes to.

O
Okay to change

I can, they can, we can. A yes can always be taken back.

I
It's a sure yes

An enthusiastic yes, not an "I guess" or a silence.

C
Continuous

Specific: yes to this isn't yes to that, or to next time.

E
Expressed, not assumed

A yes has to be actively given, never guessed at.

Supporting a student who shares an experience of harm

On Day 2, staff make space to believe and support survivors. For a caring, step-by-step way to respond when a student discloses, see the CARE™ model further down this page. For more tools and training, visit the educators hub.

Ready to send

Sample letters

Three short, warm letters an administrator can copy, adjust, and send: one for families, one for the wider community, and one for educators. Swap in your school's name and details before sending.

For families, caregivers, and kin

Dear families, caregivers, and kin,

At [School Name], we care deeply about making sure every student feels respected, safe, and like they belong. That commitment is why we're taking part in Consent Awareness Week, a national initiative held each September. For us, it isn't a separate program, it's an expression of the values we live by every day: treating one another with care, listening, and honouring each person's voice and boundaries.

Learning will be tailored to students' developmental stages. For our youngest students, this looks like talking about feelings, personal space, and asking before touching or borrowing. Older students explore boundaries in friendships and relationships, and consent in digital spaces. Activities use general ideas and fictional scenarios; students will not be asked to share personal experiences, and there is nothing your student needs to prepare.

You are your child's first and most trusted teacher, and these conversations land best when they continue at home. We'll share a few simple questions you can ask around the dinner table, and you're always welcome to reach out to [name and contact information].

With care, [Name], [Title], [School]

For the community

To our community,

At [School Name], respect, care, and belonging are at the centre of who we are. This September, we're living those values by taking part in Consent Awareness Week, a national initiative that schools and communities across the country mark each year. When young people grow up feeling respected, heard, and safe, the effects reach all of us: stronger friendships, more caring relationships, safer workplaces, and neighbourhoods where people look out for one another.

Beginning the year this way helps make our shared culture of respect visible. Students learn to recognize and communicate boundaries, honour others' choices, and navigate relationships and digital spaces with care. Building that culture is not the work of one school or one week; it grows through the everyday actions of families, caregivers, kin, educators, coaches, community leaders, and young people themselves, and we're proud to be part of a national movement doing this work together.

We invite you to take part: mark Consent Awareness Week, share resources with your networks, or begin a conversation with your members. However you choose, you are welcome.

With care, [Name], [Title], [School]

For educators

Dear colleagues,

The week of September 21 is Consent Awareness Week, a national initiative held each September, and one that reflects the values our school already stands for: respect, care, and belonging. I'm inviting each of us to bring at least one thoughtful moment into our classrooms. This is not a new unit or a major addition to your planning, it's a chance to make the culture we already build together a little more visible: helping our students feel respected, trust their voices, communicate their boundaries, and look out for one another.

The guide is organized into five grade bands, from feelings and personal space in the early years toward autonomy, relationships, and responsibility for older students. These are guides, not rigid boundaries: please adapt the examples, language, and activities to your students' needs, cultures, and communities.

Please review any activity before sharing it, use fictional scenarios and general questions, and never ask students to disclose personal experiences to take part. As always, it's good practice to keep our support and reporting procedures in mind, you'll find a fuller guide on the educators hub.

With care, [Name], [Title]

Make it your own

These letters work best when they sound like you and your school. Before you send, try adding:

  • A short personal note: a sentence about why this matters to you, or a small moment you've seen. Stories move people.
  • Something specific to your community: a value, a tradition, or a strength your school is known for.
  • Your real details: swap in your school's name, the dates, and a warm, human sign-off.
  • A clear next step: tell people exactly how to take part or reach you.

Most of all, name how consent already lives at your school. Real, everyday examples help families and staff see that this isn't a new or separate topic, it's how your community already treats one another. For instance:

  • "In our classrooms, we ask before sharing a student's work or reading it aloud."
  • "On the yard, we practise asking before joining a game and respecting a 'no.'"
  • "In our hallways, we knock before entering an office and ask before a hug or high five."
  • "In our sports and clubs, coaches explain and ask before using touch to demonstrate a skill."
  • "Online, we ask before posting a photo of a classmate or tagging someone."

Swap in a few that ring true for your school, or better yet, ask your students for theirs.

Ready to run

Activities by grade band

Pick what fits your class. Each is designed to be simple, warm, and grounded in respect, and to use fictional scenarios rather than personal prompts.

Kindergarten to Grade 2

Body bubbles & greeting choices

Children imagine a "bubble" of personal space and practise asking before entering it. Offer a greeting menu, high five, hug, or wave, and honour each choice. Name feelings as comfortable, uncomfortable, or unsure, and practise saying "no," "stop," and "not right now."

Grades 3 to 5

Ask first, every time

Practise asking before borrowing, entering, or joining. Use "green light, yellow light, red light" to read comfort cues. Explore "Whose story is it?" for privacy and permission, and map out who counts as a trusted adult.

Grades 6 to 8

The CHOICE check-in

Use the Culture Tower activity to explore how everyday actions build a culture of consent. Test scenarios against CHOICE, examine consent online, and design a "support a friend" poster.

Grades 9 and 10

Consent for a body, consent for a nation

Using Indigenous-created sources, explore FPIC and how it echoes, and differs from, consent between people. Run a CHOICE scenario lab, practise responding to a disclosure with care, and examine digital consent through "ask before you share."

Grades 11 and 12

Power, independence & support

Explore what makes a choice truly free when power and pressure are present. Compare interpersonal consent and FPIC as connected but distinct. Practise responding to a disclosure without taking over, and audit the support pathways available at your school and beyond.

All grades

Make it your own

Adapt any activity to your students' cultures, communities, and prior learning. A story, a five-minute conversation, a greeting menu, or introducing CHOICE all count. Preview everything first.

A quick refresher

Attending to disclosures

Students share difficult experiences with trusted adults throughout the year, whether or not we're marking this week. Responding with care is simply part of what we already do. Here's a quick refresher on attending to a disclosure well.

The CARE™ model

The CARE™ model is for adults in a position of trust or authority, teachers, staff, coaches, and administrators, to support a young person who shares an experience of harm. From Possibility Seeds, it offers four simple steps:

C
Centre

Centre yourself and the student.

A
Acknowledge

Acknowledge your role and responsibility.

R
Respond

Respond with care.

E
Empathize

Empathize with the student and with yourself.

You don't need to be an expert; you need to know where to turn. The CARE™ model is from Possibility Seeds. To learn more, visit the educators hub.

Want to go deeper?

For a fuller guide to responding to disclosures, including the CARE™ guide, understanding the limits of confidentiality, and knowing what to do next, visit the educators hub. And remember: you don't need to have all the answers, you just need to listen, believe, and know where to turn.

Common questions

Frequently asked questions for school staff and administrators

Isn't consent already covered by our code of conduct?

In many ways, yes, and that's the point. Consent is the everyday practice behind your school's code of conduct and its values of respect, dignity, and belonging. It shows up in how students treat one another in the hallway, the group project, the gym, and online. Consent Awareness Week simply makes that culture visible and gives it shared language, so "ask first" and "respect a no" become how your whole school operates.

Where does consent belong, isn't it just a health topic?

Consent belongs across the whole school, not in a single subject or lesson. It lives in classroom routines, how we handle group work, digital citizenship, care for shared space, and our commitment to reconciliation and respect. Any staff member, in any role, can model and reinforce it. The five-day plan and activities are designed to work in that whole-school way, not as a one-off health unit.

Do I need to plan a whole new unit?

No. You don't need to plan a new unit or a large event. Start with what feels manageable: follow the five-day plan, choose one activity, adapt a sample letter, or bring a single short conversation about consent and respect into your classroom.

How do I keep classroom discussions safe and inclusive?

Use fictional scenarios and general questions rather than personal prompts, and never ask students to disclose personal experiences to take part. Remind students they can always pass, tie the conversation to shared values of respect and belonging, and offer more than one way to connect privately if they want support.

What if a student shares an experience of harm?

Listen calmly and without judgment, believe them, and avoid investigative questions. Thank them, explain the limits of confidentiality, ask what support they need, and follow your school or board's procedures. The CARE™ model (Centre, Acknowledge, Respond, Empathize) is a helpful framework, and you can find a fuller guide on the educators hub. You don't need to be an expert; you need to know where to turn.

How much time does this take?

As little or as much as you like. One story, one activity, or one five-minute conversation is a meaningful place to begin. The five-day plan is flexible, take what fits and adapt it with care.